How to Attract the Right Relationships and Find Love
How to attract the right relationships and find love? Some people say that you can’t help who you fall in love with or what type of person you are attracted to. And if you believe this then yes you are right. But some of us know that our thoughts make our beliefs and our believes make us. So, if we change our thoughts and therefore change our beliefs then we have control of our choices.
So, can you choose who you fall in love with? I believe that if you change your thoughts then yes you can. You can decide right now what type of lover or partner you want to attract and what qualities they need to have to harmonise with your life.
So read on to find out how to attract the right relationships and find love.
The reason you are constantly attracting the wrong men.
Often, we say there are two types of men; bad boys who are exciting and good boys who are boring. Men who are handsome, headstrong and rebellious ‘The bad boys’ are often very attractive to us. They are even more attractive to women who have a desire to have children because they are perceived to be strong providers.
However, this is rarely the case and the reality is that these men are often incapable of providing lifelong commitment because of their misbehaving ways.
This can lead to heartbreak, misery and to negative beliefs that all men are cheaters.
How to heal after a breakup.
If you have been hurt in the past it can be hard to heal. Love is like a drug. The brain gets used to having a substance in our lives. When that substance is withdrawn it is like withdrawal symptoms that a drug addict may have. You can feel panicked and feel a real void in your life. You may not know what to do with your time now you are single again. In order to heal you need to increase your self-worth, confidence and esteem.
How to increase your self – love, confidence and self-esteem and move on.
Do something or go somewhere by yourself because if you can learn to be independent and do things by yourself this will increase your confidence. It could be sitting in a cafe and having a snack or a drink or going to the cinema or swimming baths.
Say yes to something you would normally say no to. This will get you out of your comfort zone and give you an opportunity to try something new.
Pamper yourself. This can play a big part in learning to love and create the best version of yourself and develop new thought patterns.
A Few Good Men.
So there are two types of men. The ones you have taken time to be in alignment with and the ones you haven’t that just show up.
Good reliable men don’t have to be boring and you can decide right now what type of lover or partner you want to attract and what qualities they need to have to harmonise with your life.
But most importantly your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every other relationship you have. Other people are following your example of how to treat you.
You create your own reality and what you believe is the way it is for you.
How to attract the right relationships and find love.
In order to attract he right love you do not need to lose weight, change your image or get a better job. All you need to do is believe you are loveable and love yourself first. When you love yourself, you will naturally radiate confidence and self-esteem and these are very attractive qualities.
Focus on why you want it
Think about what type of relationship you want and why you want it. Write down some positive statements for example;
I want a happy and fulfilling relationship.
I am attracting a committed relationship with love and affection.
Each day I give and receive love.
I am the perfect partner for my perfect partner.
My partner loves me and I love myself.
Read them over and over and even say them out loud.
Visualize your success
Visualization helps reprogram our subconscious minds to attract and manifest our desires. Once reprogrammed our minds will act differently to how they did before, our thoughts and actions will change, and we will come up with more successful ideas and meet new people who will help us along our way.
Close your eyes and imagine your perfect mate. See yourself going on dates and relaxing at the weekend together. Feel how good it feels to have a strong reliable partner in your life.
Visualise for 30 seconds to a minute every day.
Try this visualization video.
Gemstones or crystals to attract love.
Using crystals and wearing gemstone healing jewellery can help you focus on your relationships and attract the right Love, When you focus positively on love, relationships and compassion that is the frequency you are sending out to the universe and what you send out you receive back.
Some of the most popular crystals and gemstones for love include Rose Quartz, Amethyst, Moonstone, and Pearl. My favourite combination is Rose quartz and Mother of Pearl.
If you do not have any of these crystals to hand here’s how to program any crystal or gemstone to attract love.
Step 1) Take your selected crystal or gemstone in your hand, take a few deep breaths and hold it in front of your third eye chakra. (just above eye level).
Step 2) while focusing on your intention say or think the following, I program this crystal for love… and state your specific requirements.
Step 3) Focus on the healing properties and your intention and carry or wear your crystal or gemstone regularly to feel the benefits.
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